I am a member of a fetish wrestling forum. I use it for marketing, networking, and to learn what fetish wrestling fans think. The information has helped me as both a producer and as wrestling talent. So I am very grateful for that help. If you go into these forums there is a delusional thought that is somewhat pervasive. The thought is that session wrestlers/fetish wrestling actresses love wrestling. The reasoning by the mostly male members is that since the men love wrestling and the women seem so enthusiastic during a session that the women must truly love wrestling.
They do not. At least not the way the fans love wrestling.
Before I became a producer I was a session client that paid for wrestling sessions. I had more than 20 sessions over the years with both famous and not so famous ladies. So I understand where this thought comes from. Don’t get me wrong, they enjoy what they do for a living. They are just not obsessed with it like we fans are. They don’t think about it constantly like we do. This is us projecting our love/obsession of session wrestling onto the session wrestlers.
This is a job for these women. It’s a fun job, but it’s still a job. A very small amount of wrestlers may truly enjoy session wrestling the same way the clients do. They enjoy the physicality, the human chess match, etc. They take a great deal of pride beating out of shape men. But that is an extremely small number of ladies, and they still take money for it. See how enthusiastic a session wrestler would be if you didn’t pay her. If she truly loved wrestling she would wrestle for free. Also remember that most session wrestlers/fetish wrestling actresses also do other fetishes like foot fetish, muscle worship, boxing, bondage, etc.
When you have a group of people with similar ideas and thoughts gathering together on a forum it’s easy for the idea to take hold and it seems logical. I am sure that I am going to hear arguments like: “I had a session with ____, and she smiled and we laughed and had a great time. Therefore she must love wrestling.”
Try not paying her and see how happy she would be. Because if she truly loved wrestling men she doesn’t need money then.
Of course a service provider is going to make your experience exceptional so that you can return again. Do you think that the dancer at the strip club really likes you? Do you think that after you leave the session that the wrestler is masturbating about the experience? Do you think that she is texting her wrestling peers telling how great wrestling is? Do you think that she even remembers the match a week later? Sadly the answer is no.
I am also sure that I am going to hear from people giving me examples of rare exceptions. “But what about ____? I had a relationship with _____! I am close friends with _____!”
Do you know her real name? Have you been invited to her home for a non-wrestling related function? Have you met her family? Have you engaged in an activity that had nothing to do with wrestling, fetish, touring, etc?
Yes there are always going to be exceptions. There always are, but exceptions are exactly that; outliers. And yes there are a small number of session wrestlers who truly love wrestling and would do it for free. But can you name me one session wrestler who only wrestles for free? If they couldn’t get paid 99% of these ladies would quit the business.
Sorry to throw cold water on your fantasy, but for most ladies it’s a job.
